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Daily Food Management System

January 12, 2023 by yinster Leave a Comment

This tracker allows you to compare your daily food consumption with other vital factors that directly influence your intake such as energy level and stress factor.  It’s important to understand the parallel between all these factors so you can begin to identify triggers in your behaviors and make sustainable changes!

Directions:

1. Print your free tracker

2. Set up a Strategy Session with me BEFORE you begin tracking.

Set Up Your Appointment HERE!

3. Track your intake, TIME OF INTAKE and STRESS AND ENERGY LEVELS for 7 days in preparation for our session.

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Filed Under: bestself, Body Work, Energy, Leadership, Lifestyle, Personal Growth, self help, simple life, stress, Uncategorized, Weightloss, Yoga Tagged With: behavior, coach, diet, entrepreneur, exercise, fitness, food, food log, lifetyle, mindset, nutrition, stress, weightloss, Yoga

Hysterectomy Recovery

July 1, 2019 by yinster Leave a Comment

This blog post serves as a life hack on how to recover… from anything!  Share this so you too can help others recover.

OMG the fatigue.  It’s something I wasn’t aware of before I went in for my hysterectomy but 9 days Post surgery, I’m quite aware of it now.  I recognize and respect it’s my body healing but damn, I’m already exhausted just moving my fingers enough to write the first two sentences of this blog.  

The recovery has been harder… much harder than I imagined.  Granted, my surgery was not just a grab and extract kinda of surgery.  My uterus was quite stubborn. It was adhered to my bladder, pelvic floor and colon.  So this turned out to be more than a routine procedure. On top of my stubborn uterus I had adenomyosis, endometriosis and cysts that all needed special attention.  Sounds like a fancy cocktail for pain. Cheers!

So, I guess this is one reason my recovery has been so damn annoying and painful. 

It wasn’t like I went into this surgery without any preparation. Before surgery I prepared myself for recovery mentally and physically.  I kept my body pure.  I prepared and consumed foods that supported blood building and reduced toxins.  I cleaned the house.  I even had a conversation with myself on how  I was going to allow my body to do what it needs to do.  Little did I realize that subconsciously I had hidden stipulations for my recovery …. “My body was going to do what it needs but it needs to be done in 7 days after surgery.”   I gave myself a time limit.  I’m strong.  I’m healthy.  My body can do this is 7 days right? 

Wrong. As I lay in bed the morning of day 8, I mentally prepare myself for a great day.  “Le’ts do this, Erika. Let’s get up, go for a walk. Record some yoga classes for my online membership.  Create some invoices. Create content. Oh yes, it’s going down today!”

I sit up.  Feet touch the floor.  I stop just to see how I feel.  Okay, so far… good! This is IT!  Standing, standing, stand… and vomiting.  All the while a little violin is playing in the back ground!  Lol

Have you ever been excited to be forced to be still only to set up conditions for that stillness.  So is that really stillness and going with the flow? Is that really allowing your body or life to do what it needs to do naturally?  No, that’s forcing it. And if there is anything I know and I preach from experience it’s don’t freakin’ force things to happen.  

Excuse me while I swallow this dose of my own medicine.  Gulp. Tastes a bit bland like hard-headedness followed by the sour taste of stubborn.  

So this morning, I was determined to not take my pain meds until noon so I can get my poor kids out of the house and buy them a toy or something.  But after 15 minutes out, exhaustion sets in. We hit up a local coffee shop and I should have turned around and went home. But no, we shall move forward… “onward to the toy store” ye say my ego.  

At the toy store I’m pretty sure I cut in front of someone in the checkout line. However, I was too tired to turn around and apologize and give her the spot back.  I could barely lift my hand to get my wallet out of my purse. The owner of the toy store looks at this lady behind me and says, “namaste.” Namaste in a way that means… ‘just breathe, it’s okay.”  I was even too tired to tell her that the context in which she used the word, Namaste was WAY wrong and disrespectful of the word and its origins. 

So here we are back home, the boys are back on devices, I’m back on the couch.  And we are all comfortable. And this is exactly where I should be right now. I got out because of my own need to see what was going on in the world.  I was hopeful that being around other people would give me some energy. But if I would have really listened to my body, I would have stayed home because I knew deep inside I wasn’t ready.  

Lesson learned on how conditional stillness can hinder us but unconditional stillness can help us let go.  First, we have to let go of those expectations of our self and our recovery. 

  I’ll continue to do my meditations.  Light stretching. Healthy eating (with the exception of gummy bears) and letting go of expectations.  I will accept that this is my recovery. And just as the extent of the surgery was unexpected, my recovery will not be as expected.  (Ohhhh those expectations will get us every time! )

When it’s time I will pick up right where I left off and then some.  Stillness brings wisdom and clarity. And with that we create forward movement.  So in actuality stillness is movement forward.  

We need to allow our body to take the lead.  We need to give our body time to

 do what is natural in order to heal.  We need to release expectations as they always cause aversions. 

As Abraham Hicks says in my favorite healing meditation, “It’s natural that it would take some time for my body to begin to align to my improved thoughts of Well-Being. There’s no hurry about any of this.”

Thank you to my friend Shari Heftel for sharing her beautiful version of this healing meditation.  I practice this meditation while in Legs Up The Wall position.  Please comment below if you would like this healing meditation.  

 

Filed Under: Body Work, community, family, lesson, Lifestyle, recovery, stress, Support/Education, Uncategorized, Yoga, yoga form Tagged With: anxiety, beginner yoga, blog, bodywork, funny, hysterectomy, illness, natural healing, recovery, stress, stressfree, surgery, wellness, Yoga

Flexibility – The Forward Fold

March 6, 2019 by yinster Leave a Comment

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Filed Under: Body Work, community, Energy, family, Leadership, lesson, Lifestyle, Personal Growth, podcast, stress, Uncategorized, Weightloss, Yoga, yoga form Tagged With: beginner yoga, core exercise, flexibility, health, lifestyle, meditation, over 50 yoga, pain, pain management, relax, strengthen, stress, stretching, success, wellness, Yoga, yoga challenge, yoga lesson

An Entire Body Restructure and No Surgery

January 31, 2018 by yinster Leave a Comment

First off if you know me, you know I LOVE Yin Yoga.  It’s a very still yoga style to counterbalance our Yang (vinyasa flow) practice.  I fell in love with it for two main reasons. It really made me go inside and be with myself.  After all, I’m holding poses between 3 – 20 minutes.  Also, I was having so much pain in my shoulders, hips and back from teaching so much.  I took care of by body but what I was doing wasn’t enough.  I needed connective tissue work.  I needed to gently stress the soft tissue around my muscles and release the tension it was under.  It worked like magic.

With Yin I became more focused in every aspect in my life, my body’s flexibility increased like crazy and I found clarity and purpose in my life because I was making myself slow down.  However, I was recently approached by a friend Shari about Structure Integration.  Shari and I actually just met about 3 weeks ago and we talk almost every day now.  Our paths were meant to pass at this particular point and it’s becoming more clear why.

You see Yin stresses the tissue beautifully.  It’s amazing, but Shari’s system, Rolf SI she releases the soft tissue and also redirects it back to it’s proper place.  I’ve had many friends do this 10 session system with Shari and their before and after picture are almost unbelievable.  Their postures change, their butt changes, their legs and torso look longer and even their face changes.  So, a butt and face lift with no surgery?  Where do I sign?

Today was my first session with Shari and her Rolf system.  I kinda knew what to expect b/c I’ve had a little soft tissue work done in the past but nothing comprehensive like this will be.  Our first session was amazing. She started with my right side in the hands.  It was lovely.  If felt like a release of tension in the palms of my hand.  Then she moved up to my forearm, elbow and into the shoulder.  Wow, very intense but good.

I even got to bring my new Pup with me! He was comfort during the intense parts!

What happened next was a unbelievable.  She had completed my upper body for the time being and she asked me to take a deep inhale.  As I felt I was at the end of my inhale, it kept going.  In fact, the last part of that inhale made a little rattle sound.  Like the first time in years air had gone that deep into my lungs.  I couldn’t believe it.  My chest felt soft, open and I could REALLY breath deeply.

Once she completed the upper and lower body some more ‘magic’ happened.   After all was done my right side felt used.  Used as in, I put weight on my right leg and didn’t just depend on my left leg.  The constant pain in my upper back was gone and I even walked differently.  On the drive home I felt lopsided to my right side but I was not at all, I was finally even and it just felt lopsided.  I had to raise my rear view mirror in the car because I was sitting taller.

I feel like each session is going to be like unwrapping a gift!  Each session bringing a new gift of effortless movement and feeling more structurally sound.   I’m very excited to do our next sessions.  Like Shari says, it’s about releasing trauma that we’ve put on our bodies over a life time.  I know that is exactly what we are going to do from here on out because I can feel it after just one session.

After our tenth session, I’ll have before and after pictures.  I’ll also write again about the entire experience.  For now, you better believe I’m telling all my friends about this.  It is too life changing to not share.

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